These things are a great way to learn what she will like from your tongue, finger, penis or sex toy for later play. Even if you decide to give a "Quickie," your attitude will allow you to be the best she's ever had. Number 9 got me so hard xD…. I guess your 4inch dick will really please someone. Pre-cum is the clear liquid which gets mixed with the sperm before being ejaculated. Women are not things, they are people. Once you have settled on a nice, steady rhythm, keep the pressure up — and at this point, you need to pay attention to what her body is telling you.